Basic Counseling Skills
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  • A. TECHNIQUES
  • Pattern of Sessions
  • Active Listening
  • Body Language
  • Asking Questions
  • Paraphrasing/Tone
  • Summary
  • Note Taking
  • Homework
  • Goodie Bag/Fun Stuff
  • Technique References
  • B. THEORIES
  • Client Centered
  • Holistic/Biopsychosocial
  • Strengths Based
  • Cognitive/Behavioral
  • Solution Focused
  • Existential Therapy
  • Letting Go
  • Theory References
  • C. SAMPLE SESSIONS
  • 1. Client Centered Counseling
  • 2.&3. No Show/Cancellation
  • 4. Strengths Based
  • 5. Cognitive Beh. Counseling
  • 6. Holistic Health Counseling
  • 7. Solution Focused
  • 8. Existential Counseling
  • 9. Becoming Unnecessary
  • D. SELF HELP
  • Journaling
  • Mood Mapping
  • Whole Health Check In
  • Community Resources
  • Ten Things I Like About Me
  • Common Lies We Tell
  • Goal-Setting
  • A Why to Bear a How
  • Happy People
  • Self-Help References
  • E. CONTINUING EDUCATION
  • F. SITE MAP
  • G. CONTACT ME!
  • H. READERS' CONTRIBUTIONS
    • Addiction and Sleep - Jessica S
    • Alcohol Counseling - Carol G.
    • Depression and Addiction Rehab - Katherine C
    • Quit Smoking and Alcohol Rehab
    • Reducing Stigma - Patricia S.
    • Suicidal Thoughts and Alcohol Abuse - Julia W
    • Recovery Village - William B.
    • Bereavement Counseling - Sally W
    • Personality Traits - Sally W
    • 3 Solutions to Worst Fears - Paige M
    • 30 Min Reduce Anxiety - Paige M
    • Restorative Power of Arts & Crafts - Sally W
    • 3 Ways - Rid of Sunday Scaries
    • Conquer Fear of Flying - Sally W.
    • Document Anxiety through Journaling - Sally W
    • Career Options - Sally W
    • School Counselor ToolKit - Serena K.
    • Psychology Degrees - Lindsay F
    • Depression and Addiction Rehab - Katherine C
    • Diagnosing Depression - Melissa M
    • PostPartum Depression - Tracey F
    • Assisted Living Options for People with Disabilities
    • Wheelchair Home Safety - Michael M
    • Cerebral Palsy Resources
    • Counseling and Persistent Pain - Sally W
    • Mesothelioma Guide - Corine F.
    • Mesothelioma Resources
    • Finding Start Up Success - Eva B
    • Cleaning House for Better Health - Cheryl C.
    • Destress/Clean Home - Cheryl C
    • Financial Stress - Sally W.
    • Financial Debt - Sally W
    • Be Happy - Hazel G.
    • Gut Health & Mental Health - Sally W
    • How Having a Skincare Routine
    • Counseling the Impoverished - Sally W
    • Conquering Interviews - Eva B
    • Daily Journal Routine - Paige M
    • 4 Journaling Tips for Beginners - Shristi Patni
    • Drug Dangers - Rebecca P.
    • Recall Report - Laura P.
    • Living Mindfully - Mollie Wilson
    • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - Sally W.
    • Couns. Resources - Tim C.
    • Practical Financial SKills - Johanne H
    • Nutrition to Help Anxiety - Sally W
    • Retirement Career Change - Sally W
    • Managing Phobias - Sally W
    • Healing Power of Pets - Sally W
    • Geriatric Counseling - Sally W
    • Counseling Seniors with Anxiety - Sally W
    • Senior Resources - Claire S.
    • Addiction and Sleep - Jessica S
    • Better Sleep - Better Health - Cheryl C
    • Treating Insomnia - Sally W
    • Tuck Sleep - Kellen S
    • De-Fogging Brain - Sally W
    • Recovery from Sports Injury
    • Improving Mental Clarity - Sally W
    • Indoor Air Quality Can Affect Mental Health - Sally W
    • Stress on Health - Sally W.
    • Stress Management - Sally W
    • Suicidal Thoughts and Alcohol Abuse - Julia W
    • Summer Side Gigs for Teachers - Joyce W
    • Tobacco in 2017 - Mary G.
    • Take Control of Your Life - Dorothy Watson
    • No More Winter Blues - Rufus Carter
    • How I Put Anxiety Attacks on Pause
    • 8 Effective Tips for Improving Mental Health - Camille Johnson
    • Manage And Reduce Stress For Your Employees With These Tips - Rufus Carters
    • Moving Forward When Grief Intrudes in Your Life - Camille J
    • Working Remotely - Emma Grace Brown
    • Unlock Greater Confidence - Rufus Carter
    • Coping With a Mid-Life Crisis - Rufus Carter
    • 6 Self-Care Tips - Laurie Abner
    • Help a Loved One After the Loss of a Spouse - Rufus CarterNew Page
    • Relocating After a Tragic Loss - Lucille Rosetti
    • Guidelines for Teens Who Want to Thrive as Entrepreneurs - Lucille Rosetti
    • 5 Common Lifestyle Habits That Can Cause Skin Damage - Andrew Mark

 5 Tips for Coping With a Mid-Life Crisis - Rufus Carter

As they approach middle age, many people find it hard to cope with the fact that they are getting older. If you are having a midlife crisis, the good news is that you can still find inspiration while coping with your realization that you are aging. Use these five tips from Basic Counseling Skills to make it easier to cope with your midlife crisis.
 
Adopt Healthy Habits

If you are concerned about the quality of your life, start adopting a healthier lifestyle. You'll see more sustainable change if you adopt small habits instead of making a complete overhaul. Start eating a healthy diet and making time to exercise and see how these two changes benefit your mindset.
 
Lean On Your Loved Ones

You may be tempted to pull away from friends and family members while you go through a midlife crisis, but now is the perfect time to lean into your relationships. Schedule regular date nights with your significant other and make time for lunch with your friends each week. Spending time with the people you love will help you feel more positive about your life.
 
Change Careers

If you aren't happy with your current career path and have always dreamed of launching your own company, now is the perfect time to take control of your job. Starting a business is a lot of work, but it can be a rewarding endeavor if you have a dynamic service or product. One of the hardest parts of opening a business is developing a good marketing campaign. Start by designing a logo that makes your brand instantly recognizable to its customers. There are many convenient logo makers available online. Just choose a template and customize it with your own icon, text, and slogan.
 
Get More Fresh Air

Fresh air is a great mood booster. If you spend more time outdoors, you may have a better frame of mind regarding your life. One way you can get more fresh air is by increasing your exercise. Go for a daily walk or spend a few hours each week at a local pool. You can also spend time relaxing in your backyard to reap the many benefits of fresh air without exerting a lot of effort.
 
Pursue Your Dreams

If you have big dreams but have never made the time to pursue them in the past, now is the perfect time to turn your dreams into a reality. For example, if you have always wanted to become a published author but have never sat down to draft a manuscript, start putting pen to paper so that you can make your dream come true. There are no guarantees that you will get published, but you will certainly never be published if you do not try. You will feel better about pursuing your dreams even if they do not come to complete fruition. One survey found that 98% of people passed away without fulfilling their lifelong dreams, that you should strive to avoid this major regret.
 
Similarly, if you enjoy working on houses, you can either make updates to your home or get into the house flipping business. You may need to get a mortgage to make your dreams come true, so make sure you research your options and understand which is best for your situation. Make sure the mortgage rates of FHA, VA, and conventional loans are affordable before you decide to get a mortgage. Check out PennyMac USA for the latest rates and offerings.
 
If you find yourself in a midlife crisis, there are steps you can take to make coping easier. Using these tips is a good way to get started.
 
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